Arguing with your partner is something you can do

 >> Anger management


 It is normal for you to get angry when your partner dislikes something.  So don't get angry which can affect your relationship.  Try to control your anger at that moment.  Take a big breath and sit still.  Talk if you have a cold head.  Anger is a very bad thing.  It can also break the relationship.

Arguing


 >> Giving importance


 Everyone's life is very busy nowadays.  So don't stop appreciating your partner.  Find time for him even among a thousand tasks.  Find out whether he has eaten, whether his body is good, etc.  This small question of yours is very important in his life.  Maybe it's because he expects you to be fighting with words.


 >> Being by each other's side


 It is not possible for your partner to fulfill all wishes.  Likewise not for you.  So don't keep any desire of your partner, don't go for it.


 Try to create a special moment.  Be by each other's side.  Be your friend in times of trouble.


 >> Listen


 Everyone can talk.  Listen first when your partner starts talking.  Then have your say.  This argument will not go far.  Wait until he finishes speaking.  Let him know that you value his words equally.


 >> Follow some rules


 Follow some rules.  No one can be talked down to.  Do not make any bad comments about family or parents.


 >> speech patterns


 Do not look away while talking.  .  Avoid scratching your hands and feet, biting your teeth, looking away, or walking away without hearing a word.


 >> Explain


 When the anger is gone, no direction is remembered.  At that time we were busy talking about ourselves.  This is not true.  On the contrary, the quarrel increased.


 Instead, tell your partner what's going on in your mind.  Because he can't get into your mind and know.  Maybe they are not listening to you at that moment.  Give him some time.  Explain to him if the situation is cold.  See if it works.

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